another manic monday

not~~~i was so lazy today after the great party

i haven’t even downloaded the pictures to my laptop

i am taking a day of rest

i figure it is about time for a day of rest

pictures will be loaded soon

so what is happening to you this weekend??

here is what is happening to my free weekend where abvanacation was suppose to take place instead, i am with my mom and dad because mom asked me wednesday night after i had a blow out in dad’s truck and was stranded for hours to give a surprise party for dad~~and me being the dutiful daughter~~i agreed but added a twist~~

It’s a Double Surprise Birthday Party

for

Charles Ed (75th) and Shirley Fread (70th)

on

Sunday, September 28th, 2008

between 2 and 4 pm

at

Springhill Baptist Medical Center Rehab Unit

in

North Little Rock, Springhill Exit on I-40,

Rehab dining room (right across from Dad’s room 141)

follow the rehab and labor signs around to the back of the hospital

and you will be able to go right into the rehab unit

2 cakes, “finger” foods, coffee, tea and punch

follow along with the group leaving

Landmark Baptist in DeWitt

after church (12:00)

note below:

we would rather have your presence rather than your presents; but since we know most of all you rather well~~cousins are ‘fixin a money tree for uncle charlie and aunt shirley’ regardless of what i said so that is all i have say about that.

hope to see you sunday but if you can’t make it~~~there will be a regular birthday party for mom in october at our new home~~~on a saturday when dad is not in the hospital~~~~

if you know someone who is not on this mailing list, send me their email or forward this to them and they can send me their address

email is the best way to communicate with a large group unless the group goes to

charfread.blogspot.com~~where i post the info i send out in an email

such a beautiful awesome day

hey ya’ll~~~ya’ll knew what i knew didn’t ya~~~~~~~~

well if ya’ll know what i know ya’ll knew anyway~~~

if ya’ll follow my main blog, the total g rated one ya’ll know

my mom asked me to surprise dad with a surprise birthday party

for his birthday~~~~~~~~

and ya’ll know if you follow my name blog, i can’t tell my mother no

or tell my mother a lie~~so ya’ll know what i have been doing the last

two days  in addition to doing all the blogging i did at my other sites

about my dinner party where i made my dad’s famous deer steak

for kids of former students since i was without my parents for the first

time since my husband committed suicide 21 months ago~~

ya’ll would only know all of that if you followed all my blogs and i know

many of you are only here because of hnt and ffff and fff~~~so ya’ll folks

get a special treat, just from little ole sweetie cutie me to you, my very special

fff’ers~~~

ya’ll let me digress just  a little bit here now~~ya’ll are going to get to learn a

secret many people in my real world who see me everyday and have know me

for every single day of my many lifetimes this lifetime~~~~~~~~

there is going to be a saturday’s sexy shots ~~~sss~~~~coming very

soon~~hint, hint~~some saturday soon saturday’s sexy shots will

premeire~~~and the only special people like you will know about it

and be able to get there~~~because it is going to be a secret blog~~~

so it will be some saturday soon saturday’s secret sexy shots and stories

will appear~~~so make sure you don’t miss it

and ya’ll know how you can keep up with everything going

on in my crazy world read about it on my blogs~~

i tell everything~~well almost everything somewhere

cause ya’ll know how much i like to talk~~~~

cause ya know, there are many things that i do to make sure

i stay sexy, happy, healty and wealthy~~~~

well not so much anymore since i spent it

all on my new home i built last year for me

to be able to take care of my parents for the

rest of  their lives/my life and furnishings~~

ya’ll see for yourself in the hundreds of pictures

i take everyday of my everyday life~~~

it’s why i started so many blogs~~

i have way to fucking too many pictures

of the cutest things, awesome pets, tree trunks,

flat lands and mountains, and well ya know ya’ll see in my pictures

it’s how i stay (in?)sane in an insane world

blogging keeps me from going crazier,

cause i have always been a crazy cutie~~

ya’ll know, because at

some of my blogs

i show my face and

some blogs i show my legs

and some blogs i show my well ya know

~~~~~~~~~please, love,

and well ya’ know ~~~~~~

~~~~~~~~~~plawya’k~~~~~~~

so did ya’ll get the message~~

pictures will be start appearing

tomorrow night or when i get

them downloaded and uploaded

i wish there was a way i could download my camera directly into the blogs

but do ya know how long it takes me to edit through the pictures of my life?

oh one more thing~~if you comment and type in your email address in the form, i will get your comments by email and on my phone, only i can see your email address if you type it in the form and i can reply by phone where ever i am~~though sometimes i am too busy with real life to answer my cell phone

cause ya know, it’s the way i rock

deer dinner party pics included

tonight i had a dinner party where some friends came for dinner

we had lots of fun

i am now adding photos to photo bucket and how hot am i

thanks donn

another test while uploading

how hot am i

Catching a movie along with good food and fun friends often beats a wild night out. Why not enjoy a brisk ride in a horse carriage or a fine wine from a good year. You love life and don’t feel the need to live it in fast forward. You are really hot because you’re already so cool with your life.

question

it takes me way too long to upload the photos the way i am doing them

i am going to check out flicker

does anyone have suggestions on uploading photos to blogs?

i have hundreds to edit

it’s only all about me

i saw this meme somewhere and loved it~~~ it is only all about me~~

my favorite age~~

my different lives this lifetime~~~ college years, woodpeckerville years, gay years, virgil years, mountain years, ken years, favorite? tie between virgil years and ken years because they were filled with unconditional love~~the rest, because they were filled with unconditional fun

my best friend~~

tie again between virgil and ken~~since they are dead, have to go with the #2 my cousin and my brother by another mother~~~but then there are those from woodpeckerville, and my gay friends that are still alive and i have tons of new bbff from the internet

my celebrity crush~~

denzil washington comes to mind first only because i watched american gangster he’s one BILF, can’t think of the others right now because i’m still in american gangster, oh the guys from entourage, it’s almost like my life but set in LA BGWD

my defining characteristic~~

my dimples, my legs, my back or my erect nipples different strokes for different folks but i like my back as my defining characteristic

my most evil moment~~

some would think watching ken commit suicide for 20 hours but SURPRISE i can be evil~~i just strongly believe in karma so i try to save my most evil moments

my favorite food~~

i am loving me some fresh fruit tart from the rehab hospital right now but of course MY DEER STEAK, my fried chicken, is my favorite foods for me to cook, to eat out LAMB chops, baby lamb chops, shut up peta i love vegetables and eat bery little meat

my grossest injury~~

too many to list? 3rd degree burn to “fuck you” finger in college where i had to hold my hand up, flipping off the world for 6 weeks in college when i had to go to the dr 5 days a week for him to peal off layers of skin (i would faint if i did it gross)~~some operations i had were pretty gross but that is not an injury~~

my biggest hatred~~~

narrow minded people who have a closed mind

my most illegal activity~~

too many to list?

my need for justice~~~

child rapist i just don’t understand

my most knowledgeable field~~~

most knowledgeable? how to tell someone how to die? that fucking sucks!!! breast cancer, yeap~~bladder cancer, yeap~~~stokes and broken hips, yeap~~~sliding sideways, yeap

my life’s goal~~~

be happy and have fun and live in the moment because it is only temporary~~

my mother’s influence~~~

i am my mom’s daughter~~all the good in me came from mom and my maternal grandparents

my nerdiest point~~~

turtle slides~~which needs a post all to itself and it a great story that spans many years of my life mainly because i believed everything my dad used to tell me~~~~the turtle slide years i forgot  about that lifetime coming soon

my oldest memory~~~

being pulled in a wagon in mama stone’s yard by john tom~~i had a broken shoulder from falling out of grandpa’s bed during nap around 2 years old

my perfect date~~~

anything that is fun~~i. am. easy. in. more. ways. than one

my unanswered question~~

why do we have to die, why can’t we just change bodies and spare the pain from our loved ones

my random fact~~

i can look entirely different by changing what i put on BGWD~~i can even make my boobs look different~~~by the way, do you know that i will do full frontal soon~~my boobs revealed~~~coming soon

my stupidist decision~~

today’s?~yesterday’s going on a date~~last week’s~almost running out of gas lifetime? not listening to mentors when they told me i should go for the gold whatever, education, should have went for math degree instead of teaching math; who will ever know if i could have been miss america, should have continued in beauty pagents but i wanted to have fun

my favorite tv show~~

i am loving me some true blood right now i miss weeds and swingtown

my style of underwear~

i. don’t. wear. panties. unless i am wearing mini skirt i don’t wear bras. ever. just camisoles bras hide my nipples

my favorite vegetable~~

garden fresh tomatoes~love them all almost

my weakest trait~~

i. am. too. trusting. and. wear. rose. colored. glasses.

my x men power~~

i know. sometimes it is better not to know. seriously. really. sometimes i would like not to know, ya know, not meant to be cryptic, i just know

my strongest yearning~~~

i yearn to be constantly happy.  but life gets in the way

my moment of zen~~

times spent with my rocks~~no not getting my rocks off, even though that is very zen~~time spent in mediation with my rocks

awake

i just woke up

went to visit dad in rehab

then went to woodpeckerville

had a date that lasted 15 minutes

fuck it’s been a while since i said

TAKE ME TO MY CAR RIGHT NOW

then rode around with the boys

meet another twentysomething

they think i am  ALL THAT and then some

why i can’t i find a 50 something or at least

someone from my generation

came home and crashed sleep around 10

i have pictures to download YES

and emails to answer

more later

i saw him today

during my time in woodpeckerville

i saw the missed message

and i was wrong

he was not a student of mine

we went to college together

and his brother was my student

and he his hot

same age

not married

takes care of his parents so he gets

the life and he is very

hot

missed messages

fuck.  life sucks sometimes

somehow in the craziness of the past ten days

or so i got a message on my phone

and didn’t hear it until today.

i haven’t been able to check my messages

all the way through for sometime because

i always seemed to get a live call,

or had to stop and call someone

i missed a call from one of my hot hunky students

haven’t seen him in 28 years

but i will see him the next time i am in woodpeckerville~~~

i know he was a student~~~

but he’s only four years younger

than i am so being his teacher in high school

don’t count anymore does it